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What are you here to see?
Late Night Confessions 
My Heart 
Events I’ve Done
Me! </description><title>Love, SJ</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @by-sj)</generator><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>Il ya 2 nuits, j&amp;#8217;ai eu un rêve. J&amp;#8217;ai essayé d&amp;#8217;oublier tout, mais je ne peux pas...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Il ya 2 nuits, j&amp;#8217;ai eu un rêve. J&amp;#8217;ai essayé d&amp;#8217;oublier tout, mais je ne peux pas sortir de ma tête. Maintenant, je me demande &amp;#8230; qu&amp;#8217;est-ce qui se passerait si nous avons essayé à nouveau? &amp;#8230;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/40761289791</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/40761289791</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2013 09:07:41 -0500</pubDate><category>dreams</category><category>go away</category><category>what if</category></item><item><title>just…UGH</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mayxjkWu7w1qzleu4o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;just…UGH&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/34740184530</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/34740184530</guid><pubDate>Wed, 31 Oct 2012 23:00:46 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Tumblr Gets Deep</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://kashmeare.tumblr.com/post/34736585208/tumblr-gets-deep"&gt;kashmeare&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://anothermillicent.tumblr.com/post/33822099160/tumblr-gets-deep"&gt;anothermillicent&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://onlymi.tumblr.com/post/33821935049/tumblr-gets-deep"&gt;onlymi&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://kiss-my-aspergers.tumblr.com/post/32035579561/tumblr-gets-deep"&gt;kiss-my-aspergers&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://viralthesoldier.tumblr.com/post/31687036447/tumblr-gets-deep"&gt;viralthesoldier&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://toothyalcyone.tumblr.com/post/29077415729/tumblr-gets-deep"&gt;toothyalcyone&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8l4pomyau1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8ichrZ6xt1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8ici33IQG1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9y19kd6KF1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8icibN2gb1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8lq5fasMq1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9fq8btAlB1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9ox9eevFc1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8q8t1EpIM1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8icikaFmx1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8o8svo4tF1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8txjgJc7t1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8s9jaMW8l1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m94ugyIDac1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9a3v0jnKh1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8t6hzVJRk1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8niym8ckO1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8iciosjRP1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8kv8meezZ1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8kq1vtqEH1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8kq25ty201ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8icis2ZL51ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8iciwyq4R1ql9q6o.png"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;This is my fav post on tumblr&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;OH MY GOD THEY UPDATED IT&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;lmao that second one, the one about the brain, and the one about holy water. And the snakes being tails with faces one omg&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;omg&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;what is life&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;authentic tears&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;omg. i can&amp;#8217;t. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/34740104721</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/34740104721</guid><pubDate>Wed, 31 Oct 2012 22:59:18 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>all labor day weekend. aww yeahhhh. lol</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m7c549FMsk1ra6f3eo1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;all labor day weekend. aww yeahhhh. lol&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/29000454664</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/29000454664</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2012 16:29:21 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>thefuuuucomics:

by chaystar

LOLOLOLOL. GPOY</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lzcfn3Czbe1qhwuczo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thefuuuucomics.tumblr.com/post/28077105371/by-chaystar"&gt;thefuuuucomics&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;by &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://chaystar.net/post/17558263517/wtf-just-happened"&gt;chaystar&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;LOLOLOLOL. GPOY&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/28086435404</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/28086435404</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jul 2012 19:26:49 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>yes, I am in love
and 
I am SO happy. 
I hope that one day everyone will get to experience what I...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;yes, I am in love&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;and &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I am SO happy. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I hope that one day everyone will get to experience what I feel. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/26075746992</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/26075746992</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2012 12:09:48 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Hope</title><description>&lt;p&gt;it&amp;#8217;s a dangerous feeling.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/24474512857</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/24474512857</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2012 11:53:54 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m301c8LeVZ1qd4q01o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/24399656369</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/24399656369</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 08:37:03 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>this is my first time posting in months.
my thoughts are a complete mess, as if now is a better time...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;this is my first time posting in months.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;my thoughts are a complete mess, as if now is a better time than usual.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I am way more than excited to finally be leaving vb, going to texas, and watching him graduate. I can&amp;#8217;t believe it&amp;#8217;s been 8.5 weeks already. The time went by fast and slow at the same time. I guess the only things that kept me sane were my friends who were there for me when i needed to keep my mind occupied, and my letters that i got each week. Of course with the exception of the first 2 weeks when i was going completely crazy. But, i digress. I&amp;#8217;ve woken up at around the times of 6am-8am since he&amp;#8217;s been gone. and for lack of better terms, IT SUCKS. As hard as i try to fall back asleep, it never returns. Work has done a good job of keeping me busy so that my time goes by faster. Not much else to say on that matter though. My thoughts are all a mess right now, I don&amp;#8217;t know where i began and where to end. I hope we get alone time together, I&amp;#8217;m going to have to use all my strength not to jump him.(lol) I miss the touch of his skin on mine, and I wish i coud kiss him when i see him but i&amp;#8217;ll have to wait til we&amp;#8217;re alone. I want to get another room just so we can have one to ourselves but I probably shouldn&amp;#8217;t. I got my last phone call on saturday while I was at work, and he told me has something to tell me but i have to wait til I get there to find out. Who does that?! -________- it is honestly unfair to do that to me. My mind is racing, my heart honestly feels like it&amp;#8217;s going to burst.I absolutely have no clue what it could be about. He started talking about the places he could get stationed, and it&amp;#8217;s all overseas places, and it was making me sad cause from now on, we&amp;#8217;re just going to continue to be apart. I mean, don&amp;#8217;t get me wrong, I knew what i was getting myself into when we agreed to stay together, but this is a whole lot harder than i anticipated. But, I am more than willing to make this sacrifice, since he&amp;#8217;s making an even bigger sacrifice to join our military. It should go without saying, but I am truly and honestly very proud of him.  I only ever want the best for him. It&amp;#8217;s nice to finally know what each of us are doing for the rest of our lives. I can only hope at this point that we continue to move forward, together.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/24399648233</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/24399648233</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 08:36:46 -0400</pubDate><category>usaf gf</category><category>:)</category><category>jumbled thoughts</category></item><item><title>Why do people lie to themselves? I mean, who are you(as in me/you, myself/yourself) kidding? No one...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Why do people lie to themselves? I mean, who are you(as in me/you, myself/yourself) kidding? No one knows us better than we know ourselves. Why lie to ourselves about what we want,or need, like or dislike? Why lie about our true feelings?&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Why can&amp;#8217;t I just admit it&amp;#8230;?&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/17359758786</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/17359758786</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 00:10:53 -0500</pubDate><category>late night confessions</category></item><item><title>You Are Now Rockin' With The Blessed: I’ve learned young that people aren’t bound by any means of obligation...</title><description>&lt;a href="http://yanrwtb.tumblr.com/post/15813479819/ive-learned-young-that-people-arent-bound-by-any"&gt;You Are Now Rockin' With The Blessed: I’ve learned young that people aren’t bound by any means of obligation...&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://yanrwtb.tumblr.com/post/15813479819/ive-learned-young-that-people-arent-bound-by-any"&gt;yanrwtb&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I’ve learned young that people aren’t bound by any means of obligation to stay in your life, it’s a matter of choice, and their choice to remain as a part of your life is subject to change at any given time, and when or if it does, there’s ultimately nothing in your power you can do to prevent…&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;this just about sums up everything i’m feeling right now. thank you.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/15813548178</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/15813548178</guid><pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 00:13:07 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>the-absolute-best-posts:

Submitted by                          ...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luollxnsJv1r4p02io1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://www.1000notes.com/post/15581666514"&gt;the-absolute-best-posts&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Submitted by                                                                                                                       &lt;a href="http://nessastooshort.tumblr.com/"&gt;nessastooshort&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="gone"&gt;&lt;a href="http://goo.gl/5Jvlm"&gt;Click to &lt;strong&gt;follow&lt;/strong&gt; this blog, you will be so glad you did!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;this, is PERFECT.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/15590726243</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/15590726243</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 19:12:42 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>the-absolute-best-gifs:

Click to follow this blog, you will be...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltsuqcqlm71qc3759o1_r1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltsuqcqlm71qc3759o2_r1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltsuqcqlm71qc3759o3_r1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltsuqcqlm71qc3759o4_r1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltsuqcqlm71qc3759o5_r1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltsuqcqlm71qc3759o6_r1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://gifs.1000notes.com/post/15369617838"&gt;the-absolute-best-gifs&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="gone"&gt;&lt;a href="http://goo.gl/5Jvlm"&gt;Click to &lt;strong&gt;follow&lt;/strong&gt; this blog, you will be so glad you did!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;yes,yes, yes! O_O &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/15369761430</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/15369761430</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 19:15:13 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lx77h7XwoU1r67cp9o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/15214094760</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/15214094760</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 20:15:07 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>2011</title><description>&lt;p&gt;this year I experienced many amazing things.  I traveled to many places this year as well. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Washington D.C (a couple times)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Beaufort, SC ( also a few times)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;West Palm Beach, Florida&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Ft. Lauderdale, Forida&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Grand Bahama Island, Bahamas&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Atlanta, Georgia&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Savannah, Georgia&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Massanutten, Va&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;every place I loved, especially Georgia.Traveling is an amazing experience, I would most definitely recommend it to everyone. I also started an internship at a wedding/event planning company. Everything I did with the company just made me want to do it as a career even more. This year, I learned to not give up what your dream is just because it may not be the easiest job market.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;If you do what you love, you will never work a day in your life.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;so here&amp;#8217;s to you! have a safe and happy new years. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/15100764214</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/15100764214</guid><pubDate>Sat, 31 Dec 2011 17:26:39 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Merry Christmas to me from A. :]</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwv9gjhxx51r67cp9o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Merry Christmas to me from A. :]&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/14861906823</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/14861906823</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 09:26:00 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>whiskeysoaked:

If this was my Christmas, I literally would...</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/4qSlFu4cy3o?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://whiskeysoaked.tumblr.com/post/14456106073/if-this-was-my-christmas-i-literally-would-forget"&gt;whiskeysoaked&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;If this was my Christmas, I literally would forget what sadness was. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;O_O&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/14550767277</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/14550767277</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 00:33:54 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>I&amp;#8217;m going to make something of myself if it&amp;#8217;s the last thing I do. </title><description>&lt;p&gt;I&amp;#8217;m going to make something of myself if it&amp;#8217;s the last thing I do. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/14330126376</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/14330126376</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 19:26:33 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>11 Things to Know at 25(ish) (via Relevant Magazine)</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.relevantmagazine.com/life/whole-life/features/25956-11-things-to-know-at-25ish"&gt;11 Things to Know at 25(ish) (via Relevant Magazine)&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/14321171683</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/14321171683</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 16:05:55 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>f-a-n-c-y-l-i-f-e:

A 14 years old boy got beaten half dead by...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lw66hpDwzQ1qdq6vco1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://f-a-n-c-y-l-i-f-e.tumblr.com/post/14229509904/a-14-years-old-boy-got-beaten-half-dead-by-his"&gt;f-a-n-c-y-l-i-f-e&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;A 14 years old boy got beaten half dead by his stepfather. His only fault was this that he tried to protect his little sister from being raped. Now he’s struggling for his life, but doctors say he won’t make it without a surgery. His mother doesn’t have money to pay it. tumblr donates 45 cents for every sharing or reposting.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;span&gt;Please Verify, Don’t Ignore thinking It thinking its FAKE&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;span&gt;(Mother’s Number Not Disclosed For Security Reasons)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;span&gt;Doctor’s Contact Number: +91 20 6721 3400&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;span&gt;Hospital Name: Sahyadri Hospital&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Please reblog this more than once if possible, its Christmas&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/14245869551</link><guid>http://by-sj.tumblr.com/post/14245869551</guid><pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 21:55:00 -0500</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
